a couple days ago, someone on the spoon mailing list complained about people who sing along to bands at shows. this display of snobbery hit a raw nerve with me, especially because i belive that people should enjoy themselves at shows and if that includes singing, im all for it.
little did i know id get some backlash on this response, mainly from people who think singing along is an infringement of other people’s enjoyment. as a result, my response was:
you know, im suffering from seasonal allergies today and I thought I was pretty cranky!
tom, singing during an opera IS unacceptable but that is because opera/theatre/musicals/etc have their own set of rules and etiquette. furthermore, the design of these spaces take into consideration a certain
kind of behavior.
if I remember correctly, however, spaceland has a pretty shitty sound system. I work at a club as well and pretty much across the board, rock clubs don’t sound good. the few which do, you’d never know since shows are loud by nature.
the thing is, these are two different kinds of musical experiences and should never be placed in the same group if your plan is to make a compelling point.
spatial arguments aside, is singing really such a horrible thing? no, its NOT. its an expression of enjoyment, which last I checked is primarily the reason people attend rock concerts. lots of bands actually appreciate the gesture, given that most crowds stand and stare at the band as if it was a painting in a museum. does singing infringe upon your own enjoyment? it might, but the effects are so minimal, I cant believe im arguing over this.
things which are DEFINITELY more of an infringement upon one’s enjoyment; more so than one dude poorly singing along to ryan adams*: having beer
spilled on one’s self, getting burned by cigarettes, being verbally/physically harassed or injured.**
I like fun and stuff
-m.
* which begs a deeper, more pressing question: why the hell would they want
to listen to that lousy music? if ryan adams wants to alienate his fans by making fun of them for singing along, im glad he’s never seen a single cent of my money. what an undeserving prick.
** a few years back at an enemymine show, some guy got super rowdy and as a
result, I fell right into the bands bass drum and tore a ligament in my knee. needless to say, spending the night at the emergency room certainly wasn’t as fun as being at the khyber.
what do you think? granted, people singing loudly at a low concert would be unacceptable, but if you’re at any other kind of rock show, its fair game. i dont get what the big deal is and largely, why indie rockers are so anti-fun.